Empowered Teachers and Parents:
Three Easy Steps to Coach Yourself to Daily Inner Well-Being
As an elementary school teacher who has had a chance to sample different school environments both in America and in an international context, I have observed an interesting shift in my own search for a deep personal sense of wellbeing. Let’s be honest, teachers and parents have challenging roles to play today. Where can we go to find solutions to relieve the stress caused by work and home environments? Are there any options for our inner well-being to keep us grounded in a sense of fulfillment and balance in our lives?
To try answering these questions for you, I will give you another question to use as a reflection. Why not going back to those very sources of challenge in order to reclaim your own right to inner wellbeing? This new idea may cause you to get a bit confused, but I invite you to reflect on this for a minute longer.
Teacher or parent, you already have those skills to identify and evaluate causes for all sorts of problems you are facing daily regarding your students and children. Knowing that each situation has some obvious or hidden roots will lead you to more investigation, right? So, why shouldn’t you apply the same principle here? If your inner well-being and sense of personal or professional fulfillment are jeopardized or lost altogether, where can you look for the roots of this problem? Where else, but the very place in which you pour our daily energy and effort to make a difference: the classroom or the home environment. Go back and look closer at your daily working routines. Here are a few suggestions for you:
Start Questioning Your Situation with Honesty.
What daily structures serve me well and what needs to go out the window? How did I nurture my inner well-being or sense of fulfillment today? Start making a simple list of things that stand in your way of fully experiencing daily well-being: not having enough time, too many deadlines, not valuing the importance of inner well-being in personal or professional life, and so on. Just be true to your self. This exercise is priceless.
Play a Fun Game with Yourself.
Try a personal detective game using your own life and challenge as a background story for greater expansion of thought and transformation. Let it be fun and use your creativity, maybe you can even journal about it. Divide a page into two columns. In the first column, use each question you have found in the previous step and then write down your answers in your second column. This is your visual guide to empowerment. I found that it is essential for us to reflect on this sort of questions with deep honesty because all answers are already there, at our fingertips, awaiting creative solutions.
Start Reinventing Your Daily Experience
With your visual list in front of you, you can now take the next step in this amazing journey of daily life empowerment and balance. Get creative by dreaming a well-being daily routine just for you, visualizing all the elements necessary to bring you inner calm, less stress and more mental focus while working on your difficult tasks, and more joy to share with the children in your self-discovery process. One thing to note here: this brainstorming exercise should be fun and effortless. If it is not, you have not yet given your teacher or parent self permission to embrace their inner magnificence. What should you do then? Slowly read this article one more time and start re-inventing your daily work and home life in a new creative way.
Cezarina Trone is a transformational life coach, an international educator ( e-classroom web address: www.freewebs.com/mstronek1/ ) and author. Her personal interests in yoga, meditation and other creative approaches to teaching and learning have led her to share well-being coaching techniques with teachers, parents and others by motivating them to re-invent their life vision and embrace powerful change. Other life coaching areas of her interest are: women’s empowerment, international life transitions, creativity coaching, emotional wellbeing, spiritual life coaching, relationships/career & youth coaching. WEBSITE: wwww.cezarinatrone.com & BLOG: www.cezarinatrone.wordpress.com
